Yes I am sure you are wondering, "What in the heck does Michele mean about the power of our Libido?" Curious? Then read on my friend read on. I was feeling the new beautiful Spring sun on my face last week and came to think about how our life-force and creativity seems to flow so much easier when we get a chance to be outdoors again and especially when the weather is warmer. We all start to think of romantic beautiful thoughts and all seems so much better in the world. Our libido at this time seems to full of passion and life force energy. (Of course some people get this feeling more in winter but not me I LOVE the warm weather.) Well before you start thinking along any other linesJ when mentioning the word libido lets first begin by explaining what, the libido really is. It started with psychologists postulating over what they called the id and the libido. The id means the IT (The unconscious mind) As the id emerges into a stream of consciousness, - as we become small children- it emerges as the libido. It is our creative energy and this energy is also our sexual energy AND it is the link between God and us. God is all creative energy and libido is all one and the same, from the one source. When we can find something we are passionate about in our lives we can redirect this all powerful libido energy into it and find renewed life-force, passion and meaning in our lives beyond what we could ever have imagined. So what I would love for you to do this week my friend is find a project that you are absolutely in love with and treat it like a new romance. You can do this with your present career if you have been neglecting it but know you still have a deep love for it. Doing this will not only bring you passion and fulfillment it will also help you take a huge elevator up to having your dreams come true. Studies from renowned psychologists showed that the libido is defined as The emotional craving for self expression within all things, the repression of which leads to psychoneurosis. There is an emotional need from childhood for self-expression. As we get older we often turn this into a need to love someone romantically, which is all very good if it is true love, but not if we are simply looking for an outlet for self-expression. You see the libido MUST have the gratification of loving someone or something. So where am I going with this? Simply find something to do as I said that you love, write a book, start an exciting project that will help you and your world and then you will be using your libido in a healthy way. Also the plus is if you do have a romantic partner in your life you will find it becomes better and healthier because you are happier and on purpose doing what you love to do. If you do not have a romantic partner right now and desire this in your life, you will stop looking and simply allow the flow of life to happen and then at the right place and the right time you will meet another soul who is also passionate about what they do in their lives and a healthy romance will be the result instead of a needy romance. So my dear if you do not as yet have something you feel you are in love with FIND SOMETHING and if you have been working on something you love and have become a little complacent with it as we also seem to do after a relationship has been going for a while- renew your love for it. Turn all of your libido attention on it and take a quantum leap into having it be all it can be. Thats it! Now my friend. go ahead and add more passion and love to yourself, your career and all of your projects. Michele Musivation.com |